Has it clicked for you yet? I'll admit...it wasn't a click for me. It was like a slap upside my head and it was hard! But one day it does just click...and you know now.
You know what's important to you, what you're willing to tolerate in your life and what you're not. You start to distance yourself from all the things that are unhealthy and even some of the people too. You learn to care less about what other people think and say...and you start listening to yourself more...to what you need and want in your life. You realize how far you've come and you've come a long way baby! The things you once thought you would never survive are long past now and you're still standing! stronger! surviving! one day at a time.
And when you can smile at all of that? When you can truly be proud of who you are and the person you've fought hard to become...well that's the day it clicks...the day you realize...
take good care of you eh?