OH OUCH! that one hurts. It's quite the BOOM!! to the thoughts isn't it? It was for me too the first time I was told this...but it was true.
It's okay...getting or being lost is all a part of the journey.
BUT...let's be honest here okay? Staying lost is easier than doing the hard work. I know it's true because I took my damn sweet time finding my way and some days? well...it was just easier to stay lost...and I was too tired to do the work. But if we don't do the work...we won't heal...and we stay lost.
You know your life better than anyone else...are you lost or are you focused? If you're saying you're focused...is it to improve your life to the best of your abilities or are you focused on the negative in your life? Wherever your focus is...is where you are in your healing.
The way is there and you can find it...but you won't find it if you're just too busy focusing on being lost. Get comfortable with what makes you uncomfortable and watch yourself grow.
You can change your focus and you can find your way...you don't have to stay lost.